An Interview with Thirza Vallois

By BP Editor  
Romantic Paris is one of the most beautiful, information-packed books we've ever seen about Paris. You know so much about Paris from so many angles. What made you decide to concentrate on the romantic aspect?

As explained in the introduction to the book, it actually wasn't my idea but my son's and his then girlfriend's, now his wife. They thought I should not only enlighten people to Paris, intellectually, which is what I did in Around and About Paris, but also offer them the sheer dream-come-true fun of the city. Since I know Paris from every angle, it was very easy for me to focus on one aspect rather than another. The book was actually meant to be titled Paris for Lovers, but many Americans felt fidgety about such a 'daring/naughty' word as 'lover', apparently, so the publisher chose to use the more 'benign' adjective, 'romantic'. In French, the word 'amoureux' conveys accurately the meaning of the word. I guess the closest equivalent in English would be 'sweethearts'.


Just to clarify matters, a French lady who works in one of the English-speaking bookshops in Paris thought my book was about 19th-century Paris, because 'romantique' in French usually relates to the literary/artistic movement. Hence, le Musée de la Vie Romantique in the 9th arr., which is dedicated to a couple of members of that movement, and not to love, although they also happened to be famous lovers (eg George Sand). In other words, if you are into the French language beware of faux amis.

As for your comment about Romantic Paris being 'information-packed', true, but only in terms of dream-come-true Paris. The real, meaty stuff is to be found in Around and About Paris, which is literally all-embracing. People often think, mistakenly, that it's only a historical walking guide. No. It is also a historical walking guide, but it's much more than that: it also deals with Le Pen, for instance, with present-day homelessness, with ethnic issues, with scandals evolving around building projects in modern Paris. I have literally researched all the different aspects of Paris, past and present, and brought them together to the readers, to help them explore beyond the blinkered surface of the tourist track, so as to gain a fuller understanding of the city.

I consider Romantic Paris a happy interlude. It's so wonderful to just let go in Paris and enjoy its most exquisite beauty spots, shops, restaurants, hotels, little museums, what have you. And let me reassure you: even those who are single can enjoy these addresses tremendously.

Some people think Paris can be a frustrating, dirty, cold city--especially in February! What do you think makes it so romantic regardless?

Oh, no! Paris today is not a dirty city at all! The Mayor of Paris and his team pamper it and polish it on a daily basis, the way a cat licks itself clean permanently. I am amazed how clean it is (relatively, of course; I am not claiming it is Singapore). Especially when I come back from London, which has become, to my mind, alas, the capital of junk and rubbish.

As for February, it all depends on the weather, and since all weather patterns have gone haywire in recent years, this applies to Paris too. You can hit upon fabulous weather in February, as you may likewise get a mix. But then, you may have an entire spring or summer of perennial downpour. You simply can't rely on it from one year to another, despite statistics. You have to count on your lucky star and be philosophical if the weather isn't with you. Yesterday, for instance, we had Californian heavens; today it's disgustingly wet (it was supposed to snow, which it did for a while, but the white blanket trumpeted by the media never happened...). Perhaps another day...

That being said, when it's nice in February, it's fabulous, because the early spring blossoms are out with their promise of renewal: crocuses for sure, but also daffodils (which bloom a bit later in London), not to mention the various yellow, pink, and white blossoms on the various bushes. And of course, the unmistakable air of early spring.

And just as importantly, Paris is, by far, more romantic on winter nights than in other seasons. The stark, leafless trees look awesomely dramatic against the city's subtly lit architecture, which their leaves hide in summer. And the amber light shimmering in the damp air is exquisitely atmospheric, not to mention that the town is all yours because most people don't have enough imagination to walk along the Seine, or the Canal Saint Martin for that matter, on a winter night. And why not climb up the steep flights of steps in Montmartre after dark?

Romantic Paris is packed with snippets from love letters, love songs and the like; what made you decide to do that?

Oh, because that's Paris!!!! I didn't 'decide' it. It couldn't have been otherwise! I spent months weeding and deleting. I had hundreds and thousands and thousands to choose among. Just one astounding example: Victor Hugo and his mistress Juliette Drouet had exchanged 17,000 love letters. When one is aware of Hugo's encyclopaedic output, not to mention his painting and drawing, designing of furniture, political activities and stupendous love/sex life, one wonders when he found the time for that. When it comes to songs and poems, no city in the world has been celebrated like Paris. I literally agonised over my choices. And those I chose were not always the most beautiful ones, but those that corresponded to the content of the book.


As for love letters, what's more beautiful and life-sustaining than love, and what's more moving than expressing and reading it through a love letter? Not everyone is an inspired poet who can write a song, but everyone is inspired when writing a love letter to his/her sweetheart. I found it particularly heartwarming to read a love letter written by public figures, because they get toppled off their pedestal and become regular human beings, like all of us. Even kings and emperors. There is no high and low when it comes to love, the great social leveller of our emotions.

Incidentally, did you know that Sacha Guitry was a collector of celebrities' love letters?
Was there one couple you felt a special fascination or affinity with while researching Romantic Paris?
Obviously, with Peter Abelard and Heloise.... And with all the world's "underdogs"- Juliet Drouet, who had a dreadful time with Victor Hugo, typically, cheated on right and left; Rodin's wife, Rose, but also Camille Claudel, obviously, but she was no saint either.... Love is a complicated story, and as I wrote in my chapter on the history of love, "As you embark on a 1,000-year flight over the love map of Paris, dear pilgrim, be forewarned: the map is crumpled in despair and drenched in the tears of many a thwarted love. Even in the world's most romantic city, Venus always seems to bungle things."

Your Around and About Paris series has been called "the Paris Bible." Why did you decide to write about Paris in the first place, and how long did it take you to complete the three volumes?

I never decided consciously to write the books. It was a slow process. I never intended to become a writer. Much later my mother reminded me that I had always been writing as a child (stories, plays, songs and poems). A couple of my plays were actually performed at school, but I never gave it any thought because over the years life took me elsewhere.

I think what happened regarding Paris was a combination of two things:

First of all, ever since my early childhood my mother had been a source of inspiration in the art of travelling, which is something different from just being a tourist and doing the tourist sights. When friends and relatives came to visit in Paris I walked them off their feet, until they cried for mercy, or have blisters.... Back home, they would thank me enthusiastically for showing them around and opening their eyes to the real Paris, which is how I realised I could do so much for Paris lovers. Regular guidebooks are simply not about the real place. That's not their goal.

Secondly, I was doing my own therapy with Paris. My feelings for Paris were very complex, what you would call the love-and-hate syndrome. Paris and in Parisian society had plenty of negative aspects which I disliked profoundly and which were in total contradiction with the myth. I needed to understand the paradox and hoped to do so through the exploration of the city. After all, what is Paris if not the expression of its society? That is why my books are not merely about beautiful sites or museums, but just as much about the city's people and soul.

How did your view of Paris change while you were writing the books? Did your relationship with the city change?

Yes, my relationship with the city changed, definitely. I got to love it more and more, and to feel more and more compassion for its people. Because while Romantic Paris takes you on a dream-come-true experience, the real pages of Paris are soaked with the blood of tragedy.... Little by little Paris got under my skin-or should I speak of osmosis-no matter how flawed. That's real love. It transcends criticism. It is not blinded; it sees the flaws, but it loves despite the flaws. Nowadays, wherever I put my foot, I 'see' simultaneously a vertical scenario drawn from a page of its history. Just one example: When I walk to Place de l'Hôtel de Ville, I 'see' the two successive town halls that stood there before. I 'see' the square the way it looked in the past (when it was called la Grève, because it had a natural strand). I 'see' the people of Paris coming there to look for work ('faire la grève', which has changed its meaning since....), I 'see' the public executions of some notorious criminals, I 'see' the hysterical mob having a whale of a time while others are tortured to their deaths, and even paying for places with more visibility in the windows of the houses surrounding the square... I also 'see' the Feu de la Saint Jean, celebrated in June with bonfires. Today, the same time of year is marked with the Fête de la Musique.

How would you recommend readers get the most out of the books--indeed, Paris itself?


If they use my books, they will know Paris better than most Parisians. There is so much in there that you can't do it quickly, and you shouldn't. Ideally, you would focus on one area at a time. Because I was a teacher for many years, I also thought in terms of educating my reader and structuring the books in an educational way, to a certain extent. Not entirely though, because I also consider them a literary work, and therefore had other considerations in mind too, which led to an overall circular structure. The careful reader may be aware of it.

Every chapter starts with an introduction to the area, which you can read back home. Once, twice. Whatever it takes. Then, ideally, you come to Paris and you do the walks of that area. Each walk would take you some two to three hours depending on your own rhythm, but let's say half a day if you want to take it easy, and break the walk, sit on a bench, read some more, drop into a café. Whatever. Paris should be done slowly, like savouring good wine. Depending on the number of days you have, you can cover a smaller or larger area. In my opinion, what matters is not how much mileage you will have covered, but how much you will have absorbed. If you are a frequent traveller, over time, you will cover a substantial amount, perhaps all.

One more point, although what I recommend above is the ideal way of doing it, I have discovered that most of my readers read the walks as armchair travellers, that is, back home. I also discovered that some teachers of French use them in their classroom with their students. Having been a teacher myself, I was delighted. I am flabbergasted by the fact that the teachers in Paris never take their students into the streets to teach them something about their history. Instead, they take them to the museums, which is great, but they should do both. Paris itself is a museum of architecture, after all!

It's no secret that Paris can be expensive. Do you have any suggestions for those who'd like to treat their loved one to a Valentine's treat that's not going to cost the earth?

Well, it all depends what you call "expensive", because coming from London, everything elsewhere seems reasonable. Even at a place like Au Vieux Paris, which, as you know, is one of my favourites, you can have a fabulous meal for € 50 (per person). (For Valentines' they are offering a fabulous special meal inclusive of wine and champagne for €79 euros, but they will also serve their regular meals at their regular prices).

I have several affordable recommendations in Romantic Paris, notably the Hungarian Le Paprika, at 28 avenue de Trudaine (01 44 63 02 91), which starts at €36 for a set menu, inclusive of wine, and where you will enjoy the most romantic Tzigane music at no extra charge. It's a wonderful place for a winter night.

At le Coupe Chou, at 9 rue de Lanneau (01 46 33 68 89), next to the Sorbonne, you can have a Valentine special for €57 (exclusive of wine), and on a regular night their set menus start at €24. The place is full of woodsy nooks and crannies and fire places - ideal for cuddling sweethearts). The Basque Etchegorry, at 41, rue Croulebarbe, is one of the city's best-kept secrets, located in a charmingly historical tavern, once frequented by the likes of Victor Hugo and Chateaubriand. For Valentine's they have a set menu, inclusive of wine, for €36! In view of the quality of the cooking, it's a real deal! It's a wonderful place. Diners should abstain from lunch on the day, because Basque cuisine is pretty rich! To put it mildly...

There are lots of other recommendations with detailed descriptions in Romantic Paris, but may I use the opportunity to warn my readers (thanks to a reader who had alerted me), that one of my bargains, l'Atelier du Maître Albert, is now under the ownership of Guy Savoie. The food is excellent, but prices have shot up consequently, and the place has been gutted, and consequently lost its romance. I was very upset when I found out about this, but then, Paris, like all organic beings, is a place of change.

You speak periodically in Paris. Do you have any talks coming up, and how can our readers find out more about your lectures?

When I remember to update my website (I am so busy that I sometimes forget to), my schedule is displayed there. My next presentation is in San Francisco, on the 20th of March, and details are provided on my website. Also on display are announcements of my recent or forthcoming articles, and right now, my forthcoming little article for the Financial Times, for Valentine's Day. It's just a little romantic piece, but it does have a walk and a few great addresses. It will be published on the 14th of February, in their Weekend Travel section. My website is the best place for reaching me and finding out about my work.

What's next for you?

Oh, I am already in the midst of a new book. Have been working on it for the last year or so. Which is why I am even busier than usual. It's about another part of France, which is very complicated and long to get to, and that means a lot of extra needed time. My entire life is a race against the clock, while, temperamentally, I like to just sit down and take my time. Life's usual paradoxes. This book is taking me to the Aveyron, the last hidden corner of la France profonde. As a matter of fact, I am off for 10 days there first thing tomorrow morning. Sometimes it's like being on a different planet.

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Thirza Vallois is the author of Around and About Paris, Volume I, II,
III published by Iliad Books, UK, and Romantic Paris, co-published by Interlink (US) and Arris Books (UK).

To find out more and order Thirza Vallois's books, visit her website:
www.thirzavallois.com

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